Brain fertiliser: emotional self-awareness. Can we use jealousy to tell us about our own life goals rather than directing negative thoughts and feelings towards others? Continue reading Brain Fertiliser: Listen to Your Jealousy?
Does this feel familiar? “People and situations consistently don’t match what I expect and I often feel surprised, disappointed, frustrated or disorientated by unexpected consequences.” Continue reading Empathy for Self-Gain: Expectations
Think of someone you’re judging. What do your judgements tell you about… Your own values? What’s Important to you? Continue reading Brain Fertiliser: Judgement and values?
My very own ignorant processes. Entry 1 from your bog-standard, normal human ignoramus. Continue reading Living List: My Ignorance
All about these ‘living list’ confessionals by way of a testimonial. Are testimonials convincing when they’re written by the producer? Continue reading Living Lists: Modelling My ‘Bad’ Behaviour 3
If we’re not judging and shaming the ‘bad’ behaviour out of people, what the hell else are we meant to do? People gotta change dammit!! What if one solution might be the polar opposite of our strongest judgey, shamey impusles… Continue reading Living Lists: Modelling My ‘Bad’ Behaviour 2
‘Living Lists’ will model my bad behaviour for the good of my king and country! A model human in my ‘flaws’ and I say that without irony. Continue reading Living Lists: Modelling My ‘Bad’ Behaviour 1
Don’t be scared! For the science-phobic in a left-of-centre way. An exercise in mind-power… Continue reading What Could Be the Neuroscientific Bases of Our ‘Need to Be Right’?
Final: Why Does it Matter? Is structured as a secret magic trick* for your own mind and brain to make its own sense and conclusions.
*’secret magic trick’= not secret, magic or tricky just a pretty plainly stated outline of how our brains need time to process their own evidence for motivating decisions and understanding- the only trick is in bringing that intuitively obvious fact into consciousness. Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? Part 4: Why does it matter?
Your Own Insider Cues is a typical Sunday ‘checklist’ (for anyone who knows me) of handy hints to merge your feelings with your observations to learn for yourself how you can trust yourself more confidently (maybe… Or this could just be my thing… But the collaboration of my feelings and observations makes me suspect it’s a ‘most people’ thing…). Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 3: Your Own Insider Cues