Brain Fertiliser: Intrinsic Motivation?
Brain fertiliser: knowledge plus self-reflection equals wisdom. Intrinsic motivation- what are some examples of this for you? Continue reading Brain Fertiliser: Intrinsic Motivation?
Tag: personal development
Ways to Tell They’re Not ‘The One’ on the First Date: Tip Two
Week 2: The love of your life tells you something you did triggered vulnerable feelings for them. Allow your defensive feelings to take your mindset to an episode of Law and Order. Continue reading Ways to Tell They’re Not ‘The One’ on the First Date: Tip Two
Empathy for Self-Gain: Conflict
Does this feel familiar? “Addressing conflict (difference) frequently escalates to negative reactions or arguments. I frequently feel confused by people.” Continue reading Empathy for Self-Gain: Conflict
Brain Fertiliser: Listen to Your Jealousy?
Brain fertiliser: emotional self-awareness. Can we use jealousy to tell us about our own life goals rather than directing negative thoughts and feelings towards others? Continue reading Brain Fertiliser: Listen to Your Jealousy?
Is it Truman Love? A Thought Experiment
The 1970s think tank, The Bee Gees’ questioned, ‘How deep is your love, how deep is your love?’. Outlined in this piece is a reflective exercise for any curious person to explore this about themselves. Some mixed pop-culture references inside. Continue reading Is it Truman Love? A Thought Experiment
Living List: My Ignorance
My very own ignorant processes. Entry 1 from your bog-standard, normal human ignoramus. Continue reading Living List: My Ignorance
How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? Part 4: Why does it matter?
Final: Why Does it Matter? Is structured as a secret magic trick* for your own mind and brain to make its own sense and conclusions.
*’secret magic trick’= not secret, magic or tricky just a pretty plainly stated outline of how our brains need time to process their own evidence for motivating decisions and understanding- the only trick is in bringing that intuitively obvious fact into consciousness. Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? Part 4: Why does it matter?
How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 2: Intuition and Observation Get Married and Live Happily Ever After
Intuition and Observation Get Married and Live Happily Ever After in this post about the much misunderstood and misused/underused process of intuition. Spoiler alert: the intuition I’m talking about isn’t the divine energies one, it’s the mental process from our brains. Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 2: Intuition and Observation Get Married and Live Happily Ever After
How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 1: An Insider’s Confessions
An Insider’s Confessions: “I am always listening, caring, and valuing other people for who they are… This person talking to me about their lifelong boating passion is boring… What should I make for dinner? Hang on…” Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 1: An Insider’s Confessions
Men are from Earth, Women are from Earth 3/3
Everyone and everything else outside of ourselves needs to change, right? But how does that work, functionally, logically, if each of us as individuals also forms the population that could do with change? Continue reading Men are from Earth, Women are from Earth 3/3
