How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? Part 4: Why does it matter?

Final: Why Does it Matter? Is structured as a secret magic trick* for your own mind and brain to make its own sense and conclusions.

*’secret magic trick’= not secret, magic or tricky just a pretty plainly stated outline of how our brains need time to process their own evidence for motivating decisions and understanding- the only trick is in bringing that intuitively obvious fact into consciousness. Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? Part 4: Why does it matter?

How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 3: Your Own Insider Cues

Your Own Insider Cues is a typical Sunday ‘checklist’ (for anyone who knows me) of handy hints to merge your feelings with your observations to learn for yourself how you can trust yourself more confidently (maybe… Or this could just be my thing… But the collaboration of my feelings and observations makes me suspect it’s a ‘most people’ thing…). Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 3: Your Own Insider Cues

How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 1: An Insider’s Confessions

An Insider’s Confessions: “I am always listening, caring, and valuing other people for who they are… This person talking to me about their lifelong boating passion is boring… What should I make for dinner? Hang on…” Continue reading How Can I Tell if I’m Being Valued for Myself? 1: An Insider’s Confessions

The Emotional Choice of Pen Colour Part 6/6

18.10.18 Maybe my core query is whether examining the natural complexities within ourselves, rather than avoiding them, might have the paradoxical effect of making things function more simply? At least, in my own self-referential worldview this is how I perceive … Continue reading The Emotional Choice of Pen Colour Part 6/6

The Emotional Choice of Pen Colour Part 5/6

16.10.18 In my lead-up ramblings I’ve queried whether we as a society and culture and therefore as individuals might benefit from exploring and validating our emotionality more. Contrary to the cultural norms we might have absorbed, could learning to better … Continue reading The Emotional Choice of Pen Colour Part 5/6